Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Leadership Development: Is Stress Holding You Back from Being a Sustainable Leader? | Business 2 Community

This page has a discussion on stress, how it effects job performance and several links to related resources

Leadership Development: Is Stress Holding You Back from Being a Sustainable Leader? | Business 2 Community

Tips For Improving Family Time | NBC17.com

A thriving family doesn't just spend time together, they invest in QUALITY time. This video segment gives ten tips on how to do that. Tip #1 -- eat together at least once a week. May I recommend 4 times a week? Give your family the majority of your dinner discussions!

Tips For Improving Family Time | NBC17.com

Monday, January 16, 2012

Family Relationships: Office romances can destroy your relationship, so look for these signs | savannahnow.com

This article offers a list of things to look for in a partner's work activities to see if they are having in danger of an office affair.  I would recommend using that same list as a check lost of behaviors to completely avoid.  Make the list your personal code of conduct.  This will help you avoid the temptation all together!

Family Relationships: Office romances can destroy your relationship, so look for these signs | savannahnow.com

Monday, January 9, 2012

Parent or Peer??

Great article from from NBC17.com about the care that must be extended to your relationship with your teen.  It is all to often I encounter a parent, most often a single mom, who has blurred the boundaries with her teenager (usually a daughter).  As the article notes, this unhealthy behavior can create all types of problems such as:

  • Discipline Difficulties
  • Inappropriate parental self-disclosure
  • Impaired peer functioning

For a link to the full article:
http://www2.nbc17.com/lifestyles/my-carolina-today/2012/jan/09/pitfalls-being-your-childs-bff-vi-39494/

How does living together impact a future marriage?

I was reading a blog that discussed the topic "How to propose".  The author recommends :
Live together This isn’t 1950. If at all possible, ask your girlfriend to move in together before you propose or get married. A giant percentage of divorces could be avoided if couples were forced to live together and share all expenses and experiences for six months to a year prior to getting married (this is not based on any official study, just a hunch). "
(From:myjoyonline.com) 
The author acknowledges he has no scientific data to back up the claim that the divorce rate would go down if folks just lived together before marriage, yet feels it is could help.  Well, is there any data?  Could co-habitating before marriage reduce your odds of divorce?  Survey says.... NO.  In fact, the research shows that it actually INCREASES your odds of a future divorce!  In an interview with The National Review Online, author Michael McManus discuss his research findings highlighted in his book "Living Together: Myths, Risks and Answers".
For a transcript of the interview with Michael McManus Check out the article: The National Review Online, No Way to live.

Monday, January 2, 2012

10 Steps Toward Better Communication

This article comes from ABC New Good Morning America, by Liz Pryor

Here is the short version, lightly paraphrased:

  1. Control yourself & your reactions, not your honey
  2. Be clear
  3. Be proactive to avoid a misunderstanding
  4. Golden Rule
  5. Is it worth it?
  6. Be honest - How much are you adding to the problem?
  7. Pay attention to how you are received
  8. Study your weaknesses
  9. Stay committed in spite of momentary disagreements
  10. Be alert

For the link to the full article:
http://abcnews.go.com/US/AdviceGuru/year-10-steps-communication/story?id=15261461#.TwIDRzUdSf4